A great way to start anal play and enhancing arousal is by introducing a butt plug. Anal play is a great way for solo or couples play to enhance and reach multiple orgasms as a lot of users like the experience and being completely fulfilled.
How to Choose
1. If this is your first time look for a toy that might be slightly smaller. No need to go for the largest bad boy on the market!
2. All butt plugs start smaller and graduate in size. This assists with the arousal and stimulation inside the anus. Don't fear the graduation of the item as it is designed for your pleasure.
3. Lubricant is essential and we always recommend an anal lube. They are slightly thicker in density and also work well within the anus to ease the butt plug in.
How to Use
1. Doggy: The easiest way to start is to be comfortable and bend over for yourself to reach around or your partner to insert the butt plug In this position it is the easiest to achieve.
2. Squatting: Standing with your feet flat and over the top of the plug. Ensure that you are able to insert with ease and lubricate the butt plug.
3. On your back: It is a good idea to slightly arch your back by propping yourself up with a comfortable pillow and spread those legs!
If one of these positions works best you'll find that is what you will go with most times with anal play. Once you hold the base of the butt plug (with lubricant on this also) position the tip at the opening of the anus. Once you are in the position angle the plug towards your stomach and gently push. At this stage you shall feel the plug enter your anus (or if you are playing with another person see that this is the position that is comfortable for them) and continue to push a little more until you have it fully inserted. Most anal play works well with motion and it will come down to you if you feel pleasure from inserting in and out.
Now just remember that toys can come in all shapes and sizes. Inflatable vibrating plugs can also give extreme amounts of pleasure when you work into more advance anal play so be sure to keep your mind open to playing with butt plugs.